Sunday, November 16, 2014

November 12 on the 12th

1. I woke up before the kids and started unpacking suitcases

2. and making Jackson a lunch.

3. I enjoyed the peaceful lit Christmas villiage Dave set up last weekend.  (it was SOOO cold this morning and this seemed to emit a warm glow)

 4. The kids and I flew home from our trip to Phoenix late, late last night so I let them sleep as late as possible.  This meant waking Jackson up at 7:45... just 15 mins before school started.  It was tough to eat breakfast.

5.Mariah and I got to eat breakfast just the two of us.  She didn't eat much, this is normal.  I think she is hungry most of her life.

6.  I couldn't figure out what to do with my day since Hallie wasn't even awake yet.  I was too cold to want to go anywhere, so I headed out in the garage to the treadmill.  I was really worried about Mariah getting on the treadmill, so I opened the car for her to play in.  Hallie found us (She woke up AFTER 9!!) and the girls played in the playroom while I finished my workout. I am trying to increase speed, and a treadmill pushes me to run at a specified speed.

7.  I had a mountain of laundry to fold and I had time to fold while my visiting teacher and I were visiting.  I'm glad to have these visits.

8. Hallie and I made homemade noodles for a chicken noodle soup on this bitterly cold day (in such a sharp contrast to beautiful, warm Mesa yesterday at the park).  She was very proud of her work.  She is fun to cook with.

9.  I menu planned for the week and made it simple by going for 100% soups.  Yum!  It is suppose to be cold all week.

10.  We shopped at Aldis before picking Jackson up from School. This store has a learning curve, but I am now enjoying the savings.

11.  After reading with me and doing his math homework, Jackson, all on his own completed this 'potion' experiment.  He did a great job.  He was so kind and loving and helpful all afternoon.  This is rare since the kids usually fight and annoy each other after school so much.  Knowing Dave wasn't coming home tonight made it so much easier to handle.

12. We ate home made chicken noodle soup and everyone was able to find a couple of things they liked from it.  (And I enjoyed all of it!)   The kids spent the evening doing 'crafts' and coloring while I cleaned up and played with Mariah.   Telling Jackson it was bedtime made all the good attitide he had all day disappear and his anger and frustration came pouring out and he ended up going to bed without the full routine.  He was really sad.  I was proud of myself for handling his tantrum with calm and peace and following through with consequences.

+ I didn't get a photo of Tasha and Kelly who came over to watch "The Fault in our Stars" with me after the kids were in bed.  We stayed up talking until midnight and I fully enjoyed having a little girls night.

As I reflect on this day, it really is just a day in the life of a mom, meals, laundry, cleaning, kids and more routines that aren't that exciting, but I had a fantastic day and spent time with my kids that I love.  It was a great, albeit mundane, day.

Wednesday, October 29, 2014

October activities 2014

For playgroup one week we hit this awesome pumpkin patch!  I really missed Jackson and wish he didn't have to go to school so much!
The girls loved it!

 except for being brewed by Hallie...


 My cousin is serving the Fort Worth mission, so since we moved here, I've been on the hunt for him.  the stars aligned and one night I had a Relief society meeting the same night as a district fireside. It was great to see him, so happy and full of light.  I love our big family.
 Hallie's hair was getting to be impossible to comb and even worse to keep looking combed, so we trimmed it up!  I like it so much better... not as many fights!  But I miss those cute curls!

 A really great park opened up right by our house.  It has all sort of unique play structures and activities.  We've been visiting frequently with the weather finally cooling off a bit.
 I've been teaching preschool this month.  Our first week we learned "F" and visited the firestation.  It was great for the girls to be on a field trip with friends.  The firefighters were so friendly and fantastic (also F words!)





 We got really lucky because that same night, we had a neighborhood get together and we got to see the same firefighters, who remembered us.  There was a bounce house, facepainting, snowcones and more.  It was great to meet some neighbors!


The best part of this night was Jackson saying, "Hey that looks just like Oscar Travino!" Right before they announced the major of NRH, OSCAR TRAVINO!  I was shocked he knew him AND recognized him!  Turns out he learned about him THAT DAY in school!  We introduced ourselves only to find out we moved into the home of one of his city managers he knew well.  It is a small world, even when you are not Mormon :)


My ward has weekly playdates at parks around.  This girl wants to be a big girl and swings and climbs all over.  She loves ladders, fences and other precarious situations.  Keeps me on my toes.
 Jackson got invited to his first party of the year.  It was so great to meet other moms of parents that live near me.  This is what I like about  going to a neighborhood school and knowing we will interact for years to come through our kids. 
 Jackson ran 32 laps (3 miles!) at his run-a-thon.  Every even lap he ran the whole way, every odd lap, he stopped to get a drink and walk for a section.  He was diligent and never gave up.  the atmosphere and support from parents and teachers were fantastic.  He is loving being a Gator!

 Our neighbor friend is also in 1st grade with Jackson.  They enjoy playing together when they can find the time.

California Family Gathering


When my oldest brother's family (from Colorado( let us know they were planning a Disneyland trip over fall break, everyone wanted to join.  Brother #3 lives in Cali doing medical school and #2 lives in Arizona.  And we get to fly free.  Of course, my parents in Utah didn't want to be left out, so they drove into town, too.
Friday morning we headed to the airport SO early.   It is so hard to get out of DFW and I really dislike the early morning flight and having to wake kids up at 4 am, but those are the sacrifices we have to make.  We were getting there in great time, until we got to the shuttle.  The shuttle took 45 mins to get us to the airport and we had only planned 15 mins.  We were so late, and with construction and taking wrong turns in the airport we were getting later and later.  Checking bags was tricky because we were only 25 mins before the flight.  Security was a bear, but we got to skip the line because we had kids and strollers.  We were going so fast.  I literally ran for 5 mins... sprinting with a stroller and backpack. Up and down elevators and escalators, etc.  I got to the gate and the agents said they had been waiting for us.  I was so relieved to make it, but then, since Dave was a ways behind me, they wouldn't give us the tickets.  The let a few other stand-bys on and then Dave showed up just as they were boarding.  We were SO upset.  We knew flights for the rest of the weekend were super full, so all our anticipation and excitement was going down the drain as we tried to make new plans.  At one point, Dave was ready to go home. The kids were getting antsy and hungry (the plan was to eat on the airplane).  It was so depressing to be that tired and sweaty (from running) and not headed to our destination.   The next flight to Phx was open, but from Phx we couldn't think of a way to cali (rental cars were $600!!) and flights were full, full, full we decided to try for phx anyway and as a back up plan flying into LAX after a 5 hour layover, Dave taking the train to Santa Ana to get our car and coming back 1 hr to pick us up.  NOT a very good plan and it would take literally ALL DAY to get to Cali.  But we wanted to be with my family enough to make it worth it.   By the time we landed in phx, the next flight to Santa Ana had opened up with 6 seats and we only needed 5 WHEW!  We were so glad to be headed to our destination, but sad that we were going to miss Sea World (Where we have a season pass).

Once we got our car (upgraded to a minivan!!), we tried to think of something to do. We headed to a local pumpkin patch.  It was hot, but the kids got to run and move.  Jackson got a bloody nose and there was blood all over him, his clothes, shoes face and even several pumpkins!  He looked like a mess!


When then drove in to LA to go to the science center there (Its FREE and perfect for little ones!).  Luckily we weren't too annoyed at the LA traffic because all our kids took naps on the drive.  The museum was great, we wished we had more time there.  When it closed we walked through the rose garden and played hide and seek as a family.  It was beautiful and so fun to have our kids free to run and play (as opposed to the restrictions in airports and airplanes)  We then headed to Dave's uncles house in Corona.  We stopped for some Islands Hamburger.  Seriously, how does anyone live here? the traffic is horrible!  And this, coming from someone who lives in Dallas area. 


The next morning we took slow (even though our kids were up at 5 am cali time).  I went running on the major hills of Corona... such a great workout!  We drove into Newport to meet my family at the beach.  It was the PERFECT day to be on the beach.  The weather was warm, water was clear, sand was soft, etc, etc.  Not to mention being with my brothers, nieces nephews and mom and dad.  Such a perfect and relaxing day.  The only stress was the huge crash of the ocean.  I wished the waves didn't get so giant, but eventually the kids stayed up above where the waves crashed and I was able to relax (until I went into the water and had a panic attack every big wave.  How can I LOVE the ocean so much and still be so terrified of it?
Mariah didn't stop all day, buckets, sand, digging.  She was in her own world, with freedom to do what she wanted and she LOVED it.
Most of the boys got buried at some point.

Daddy and Jackson braving a wave.  Hallie got taken out by a wave earlier and that kept her away most of the day.  She still talks about the wave that knocked her down.

We spend Sunday going to church with Shane.  It seemed like mostly a student ward, so I actually felt old!  There were so many kids.  I forgot what a super big ward was.
We drove by the redlands temple.
We had a BBQ at Shane's apartment complex.  It was right by the pool so I was super anxious about one of the kids falling in. but eventually was able to relax and have fun.  The kids watched a movie in the 'theater' they had and we got to talk and have fun with siblings.  Since we never spent the night together, we never got kid-free time which is always more fun with my siblings, but the cousins had a  great time together.
 Monday we went to Disneyland.  It was our first trip with our kids and we wanted to make the most of it.  We got a bunch of food in the morning so we didn't have to worry about meals or leaving the park later.  Then we headed to the park early.  We arrive around 8:10 but with parking and shuttle and standing in line to get in, we didn't get in until 9 am (it opened at 9).  I raced to stand in line to get an Elsa and Anna showing.  Luckily, MaryAnn got to me right before we requested tickets, so her girls could go too.  Ryan and MaryAnn's family and our family stuck together all day and worked the system.  We would get a different fast pass on each of our passes, then one adult would ride with the boys and then the other adult and the boys and 3 year old girls would go again with a stroller pass.  It was awesome to not wait in line much (Esp. because Mariah is a total wanderer and hard to control in a line. )  Jackson and Dayton loved the big rides and the girls loved seeing the characters.  We felt bad we could never hook up with my other  brothers or my parents, but it worked out great that we both have kids the exact same ages.
Dave took the kids on the tea cups... I hate that ride!

I stood in line to get tickets to stand in line again to see Elsa and Anna, but the girls loved it and I think even the boys were pleased.  Mariah was having nothing of it and clung to me.  But Bree couldn't get enough of touching and talking to them.
How would it be to be the most popular princesses at Disneyland?



Space mountain... look at those boys faces!
On the submarine.  Mariah liked looking out the window and seeing the fish in the water.
The jungle tree house.
Jackson said his favorite was Splash mountain, which he rode several times (The ride broke earlier, so later there was absolutely no wait at all!  We rode 3-4 times in a row)
We watched a Beauty and the Beast play that was a perfect stop for our aching muscles.  Then we finally met up with my family and watched the parade together and ate all the snacks we could handle.
Seriously, my family is exploding!  My parents have 13 grandkids under 6! (only 11 were here!)  No wonder we couldn't all stay together!
I was shocked at how well everyone was doing with no naps and no breaks, but finally around 8:30 pm, both girls passed out.  Mariah woke up an hour later and I went alone with her on Dumbo and Buzz Lightyear.  I feel like she didn't get catered to because we were going on the bigger rides, so I tried to make up for it, but I think she was just zoned out.  We stayed until they kicked us out of the park and rode Buzz Lightyear several more times.  at 11:15 pm (this is 1:15 our time) we stopped at the shops and got souvenirs for everyone.  The girls woke up and were ornery.  Jackson had quite a hard time picking somethings, but once he decided, he curled up in the stroller and crashed (2 am our time).  Mariah got a Minnie Mouse baby with a blanket, Hallie got an Elsa barbie doll, and Jackson got a take-apart Olaf.  We also got a family ornament and a magnet for our collection.  Including souveniers, parking, tickets and food, we paid around $90 for the day trip (Thanks to the rewards from our disney credit card).

Still going strong at 11 pm!

On the way out of town, we had time to stop at the newport beach temple for a photo.  

Our ride home was so smooth.  The kids were so good, the layover easy.  On our long leg, we had gotten all middle seats.  Despite trying to switch around, we ended up with Jackson sitting alone between two men (and Dave in front and me behind him).  He was SO good.  He played quietly on his leap pad and then with the magazines and talked nicely with one man.  Mariah slept and slept and slept.  For 3 straight hours!  I was afraid she wouldn't go to sleep that night (she woke up at 7:30 pm our time)but she did.  I guess we really wore her our!  I wished every flight could be that way.  We are so glad we made it to the family get together.  I hope we do it again soon!  (oh how about Thanksgiving and Christmas?)

Monday, October 27, 2014

Conference in Virginia Oct 2014

This is becoming such a tradition that I need to label it with the date.  After being on the east coast for 4 days, we flew home, took care of business for 3 days and immediately flew back to DC.  Luckily, on American we can fly to the Dulles Airport which is so much closer to our family there.  We were dreading the flight since our last experience was awful.  It started out about that awful.   After Mariah kicked the seat in front of her many times (and I asked the lady to move to one of the other 50 empty seats on the flight and she spoke back in Mandarin and didn't move) and I was SO stressed trying to get her to sleep, she FINALLY fell asleep.  Jackson freaked out because he didn't pack (and I didn't enable) his favorite blankie.  He swore he would NEVER fall asleep on the whole trip just to show me how much he needed it.  After a huge tantrum and moving to the back of the plane he changed his mind and decided a blue blanket was close enough and fell asleep in my arms.  The last hour of the flight was GREAT!  I even slept.

We love being at Rich and Ashleys house.  They treat us so well and have such amazing food.  Friday night was filled with disappointment and sadness as we watched BYU lose and lose their quaterback.  So sad.  We went to bed really late and got up early for Volleyball for the boys and a long run for the girls.








We made yummy food and listened to talks from our prophet and other leaders.  It is always inspiring.  The kids were pretty good.  Jackson really looks forward to conference now that he earns $ to buy at the conference store and he likes to color and do other projects.  He actually listens too!
We ate lunch and then headed out to apple pick at a nearby orchard.  It was a neat experience.  The kids were afraid to eat the apples right off the tree... because they didn't look like the store apples.  I was glad we taught them how to do it.   We were also glad to have grandma and grandpa around.  They are serving a mission in the DC temple and we are luck enough to be able to visit them.

We had great food and the boys headed to the priesthood session in time for the moms to put the kids in baths and to bed.  I was so tired!  The boys came home with 7 Ben and Jerry's ice cream (so of course I had to try them all!)
 And we think our kids are scared of dogs... Mariah even warmed up a bit!
 

We spent Sunday going for a walk and then watching more and more conference.  The kids had a tougher time today, but still managed to let us listen to most of it.

We left for the airport as soon as the session was over.  luckily, there was no one sitting in front of Mariah and she could kick without me getting stressed about it.  She fell asleep within an hour and the kids all zonked out.


Jackson lost his first tooth waiting for the shuttle at the airport.  He has been so excited talking about and wondering about when and where he would lose it.  He was all smiles and excitement about losing it.  I can't believe we are at that stage already!

The SLOW Dallas process didn't get us home until nearly midnight!!   But it was a fun quick trip to see family